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Discover a personal sense of community on MaleSurvivor's Weekends of Recovery as you connect in safety to other men on personal healing journeys.

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Featured Documentaries

Boys and Men Healing
by Kathy Barbini & Simon Weinberg
A Big Voice Pictures Production, 2010

Boys and Men Healing premiered at the MaleSurvivor 12th International Conference in New York City on March 19, 2010. It was our privilege to also welcome to the conference the three courageous men who were featured in the film, Mark Crawford and David Lisak, both of whom are members of MaleSurvivor, as well as Tony Rogers and film producer Kathy Barbini.

Boys and Men Healing is an excellent education and training resource that is now being distributed throughout the United States, as well as worldwide.

 

Back on Track - Men talking about Childhood Sexual Assault

Back on Track Men talking about Childhood Sexual Assault
by SECASA (South Eastern Centre Against Sexual Assault)

Back on Track is a unique uplifting short film about the healing journeys of men who have experienced childhood sexual assault. To view a trailer of this documentary, please click on the above graphic.

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BOYS AND MEN HEALING FILM SCREENINGS ACROSS OHIO

Screenings Across Ohio - Part of a National Awareness Raising Campaign Organized by Malesurvivor.org 'Dare to Dream: The Healing Journey'

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MaleSurvivor's Dare to Dream Program brought Message of Hope and Healing to Penn State University

Todd Holt and Theo Fleury have issued the following statment regarding the sentencing of Graham James on March 20th

Washington, DC, March 21, 2012 -- "Theo and I speak to men all over and we tell them: YOU, like us, are not alone; the effects are far-reaching & sometimes feel never ending, but there IS a place & time for healing. It is NOW. I stand here today, a Victor over sexual abuse & I along with Theo, offer you our voice.

This sentence today is nothing short of a national travesty because we know that childhood sexual abuse has reached epidemic proportions in our country. Graham James once again perpetrated his crime and spread his sickness right through the courts of Canada. He conned the judge with his "poor me" and "I regret" statements. His lawyer defended the indefensible, and he's been rewarded for doing so and Graham James is laughing all the way back to the life he's always led knowing that justice for him is but a blip on the radar..."

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What you can do to help protect children from abuse

I've gotten a couple questions from people who have been wondering how parent/teachers/caregivers and adults in general can better protect kids from being abused, and what they should do if they suspect a child in their lives has been abused. I hope the following post will help start provide some insight and guidance. Please feel free to share...

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MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference: A World of Healing

November 15-18, 2012 John Jay College New York, New York

CALL FOR PRESENTATIONS

This international conference will provide a unique opportunity for personal and professional growth, networking, and the dissemination of new knowledge in the area of sexually traumatized boys and men. The four-day event will feature numerous workshops for male survivors of sexual abuse, their loved ones/partners, and the professionals who work with them.


10 Daily Affirmations for Male Survivors

Howard Fradkin, Ph.D., LICDC, Co-Chairperson, MaleSurvivor Weekends of Recovery

  1. Recovery is absolutely possible and achievable for me.
  2. I will practice being disloyal to dysfunction and loyal to functionality.
  3. I give myself permission to connect to loving, affirmative, strong, sensitive, accepting men and women in my community.
  4. I release and forgive myself for any responsibility I have accepted in the past for my abuse.
  5. The abuser (s) from the past chose to hurt me; I will stop repeating the lie that it just happened to me.
  6. Offering myself daily compassion is necessary for my healing and growth.
  7. I commit to connecting to the boy inside me today so we can play, laugh and experience joy together, even if just for a minute or two.
  8. I believe deep inside me I possess the ability to face the truth of my abuse and to learn to use new tools for healing.
  9. I have the right and the ability to speak the truth of my abuse and deserve to be heard, understood, believed and supported.
  10. Feeling is healing; as I heal, I develop the ability to experience a wider range of emotions to enhance my health and connections to others.

To learn more about Dr. Howard Fradkin, click here

11/10/11 MaleSurvivor speaks out about the abuse scandal at Penn State
WASHINGTON--(BUSINESS WIRE)--MaleSurvivor, a leading, global not-for-profit organization dedicated to overcoming sexual victimization of boys and men, issued a statement today through Advisory Board Member Dr. Howard Fradkin regarding the Jerry Sandusky sexual abuse allegations. The former Penn State coach is currently under investigation for abusing eight boys over a 15-year period... Read More

The Center for New Beginnings, Dahlonega, GA

Register for the The Center for New Beginnings Weekend of Recovery!
May 18-20, 2012
The Center for New Beginnings, Dahlonega, GA
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The Center for New Beginnings, Dahlonega, GA

Register for the Guest House Retreat and Conference Center Weekend of Recovery!
June 15-17, 2012
Guest House Retreat and Conference Center, Chester, CT
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Kempenfelt Conference Centre, Barrie, Ontario, Canada

Register for the Kempenfelt Weekend of Recovery!
July 13-15, 2012
Kempenfelt Conference Centre, Barrie, Ontario, Canada
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Alta Lodge, Alta, Utah

Register for the MaleSurvivor Alta Advanced Weekend of Recovery!
August 17-19, 2012
Alta Lodge, Alta, Utah (outside of Salt Lake City, Utah)
Building Intimacy: This Weekend is open to Level 1 Alumni & their partners
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Alta Lodge, Alta, Utah

Register for the MaleSurvivor Alta Level 1 Weekend of Recovery!
September 21-23, 2012
Alta Lodge, Alta, Utah (outside of Salt Lake City, Utah)
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Hope Springs Institute, Peebles, Ohio

Hope Springs Weekend of Recovery!
October 19-22, 2012
Hope Springs Institute,
Peebles, Ohio
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The 2012 Weekend of Recovery Schedule has been announced! Click here to view it.


MaleSurvivor Events

11/15/2012 MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference
MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference: A World of Healing. When: November 15 - 18, 2012 Location: John Jay College of Criminal Justice Co-sponsored by John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York City IVAT (Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma) co-sponsor of CEs. Complete information will be posted on website as it becomes available… View More

11/16/2012 MaleSurvivor: 13th International Conference
MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference: A World of Healing. When: November 15 - 18, 2012 Location: John Jay College of Criminal Justice Co-sponsored by John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York City IVAT (Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma) co-sponsor of CEs. Complete information will be posted on website as it becomes available… View More

11/17/2012 MaleSurvivor: 13th International Conference
MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference: A World of Healing. When: November 15 - 18, 2012 Location: John Jay College of Criminal Justice Co-sponsored by John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York City IVAT (Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma) co-sponsor of CEs. Complete information will be posted on website as it becomes available… View More

11/18/2012 MaleSurvivor: 13th International Conference
MaleSurvivor 13th International Conference: A World of Healing. When: November 15 - 18, 2012 Location: John Jay College of Criminal Justice Co-sponsored by John Jay College of Criminal Justice in New York City IVAT (Institute on Violence, Abuse and Trauma) co-sponsor of CEs. Complete information will be posted on website as it becomes available… View More

All Events

05/21/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

05/22/2012 Standing Silent Documentary Film Screening
Standing Silent Screening at The JCC in Manhattan Tuesday, May 22nd, 7:30 pm The JCC in Manhattan will be screening Standing Silent, an important documentary film on sexual abuse in the Orthodox Jewish Community. The presentation will be followed by a conversation. When Phil Jacobs was editor of The Baltimore Jewish Times he began writing and publis… View More

05/25/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dae… View More

05/26/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

05/27/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

05/28/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

05/29/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

05/30/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

05/31/2012 Black N Blue Boys / Borken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/01/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/02/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/03/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/05/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/06/2012 Black N Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/10/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/11/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/12/2012 Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change
Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change Ottawa, Canada Welcome to Canada’s second annual national training program for service providers who work with male survivors of sexual or physical abuse! Conceived to address the needs of front line counsellors and agencies who take on the much needed task of developing and maintaining treatment services… View More

06/13/2012 Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change
Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change Ottawa, Canada Welcome to Canada’s second annual national training program for service providers who work with male survivors of sexual or physical abuse! Conceived to address the needs of front line counsellors and agencies who take on the much needed task of developing and maintaining treatment services… View More

06/13/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/14/2012 Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change
Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change Ottawa, Canada Welcome to Canada’s second annual national training program for service providers who work with male survivors of sexual or physical abuse! Conceived to address the needs of front line counsellors and agencies who take on the much needed task of developing and maintaining treatment services… View More

06/15/2012 Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change
Summer Institute on Men, Trauma and Change Ottawa, Canada Welcome to Canada’s second annual national training program for service providers who work with male survivors of sexual or physical abuse! Conceived to address the needs of front line counsellors and agencies who take on the much needed task of developing and maintaining treatment services… View More

06/15/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

06/18/2012 Sexual Abuse Path Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

06/20/2012 Black n Blue Boys / Broken Men Play
Written and performed by Dael Orlandersmith Directed by Chay Yew A co-production with goodman theatre limited season | Thrust Stage May 25–June 24, 2012 world premiere Berkeley Repertory Theatre Contact | | Box office: 510 647-2949 Box Office and School of Theatre: 2025 Addison St, Berkeley CA 94704 Bold, beautiful and fierce—Dael … View More

07/16/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

08/20/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

09/17/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

10/15/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

11/19/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html

12/17/2012 Sexual Abuse PATH Coalition Monthly Meeting
Sexual Abuse Prevention Awareness Treatment Healing Coalition of NWO The Coalition meets the 3rd Monday of each month from 11:30-1:00 at Cordelia Martin Health Center on Division @ Nebraska in Toledo Ohio. More information: cece@mynirvananow.org or 419.729.0245 or http://www.mynirvananow.org/SexualAbusePATHCoalition.html