Victor you bet I understand. The creeps are usually trusted authority or family members. And that makes it all the more difficult for us to relate to other people from these groups who try to help. I just wish the F**K that my church would say collectively WE ARE SORRY AND WILL MAKE AMENDS. Instead they tie things up in the courts and say they wont hire gays. God they are so wrong. Some of the best Priests I know are gay. They are kind and thoughtful. It is the pedophiles that screw everything up. God must be disgusted with the whole sorry mess that we unwillingly became a part of.
IT REALLY IS OK TO STUMBLE. NONE OF US ARE PERFECT.