I really don't mind those questioning their sexuality using the gay site. As a gay man, though, I am sometimes requesting a response from a gay man who has come to terms with his sexuality. I gladly respect all responses, but I am often intimidated feeling I don't belong because I don't have the questions or pain with my own sexuality. My problem isn't as bad as these guys, so I'll try and figure it out myself, is often the way I deal with this confusion. I don't have an answer, but wonder what other gay men think about this. All other comments would be welcome too. Thanks