sar,
wise choice to conserve energy. for others, though, i would like to contribute to this thread.

one of my perps was a minister and the husband of my maternal perp for a time. idiocy like the woman conveyed is a reflection not only of what sar pointed out about suspicion of caring fathers, but it is also a reflection of their own stupidity. their blindness is a choice they make that they know more than anyone else, which just shows how stupid they really are. a place of worship and fellowship should be just that, fellowship. however, the one place of peaace and solitude so often becomes the breeding ground of such stupidity. choosing where and when to make a stand is honorable and conveys wisdom, but at some point, such stupidity and cruelty will be faced.

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journey well,
theo dewolfe

- It is gift, and gift will find its way
- I inherit through my choice. I build through my affirmation. It is through my freedom that I nurture, or fade into autonomy
- I was not given to serve life, but to embrace it