My husband told me in January about his sexual abuse by his mother after keeping it a secret for over 50 years. He will not talk to anyone else about this and I need guidance so that I will be able to support him through this ordeal. His earliest memory up through 11 or 12 years old is of this abuse and he feels that he was the one responsible - even at the age of 4. How can I help him through this? Please help - I am very concerned for him.