I am so lost right now. I have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and feel like I am losing my mind. I have just found out that all of his siblings - two brothers and a sister were abused by an uncle. My boyfriend says he was approached but scared his uncle away. My boyfriend has said it is possible that something happened but if it did he REALLY doesn't remember it. Even his mother thinks something happened to him but the biggest problem is that my boyfriend is so smart - scary IQ - that the few theripist he has seen in his life he has just talked in circles. Due to some strange events - Jeff moved out to try to work on some of his issues - like habitual lying - but ended up getting a job offshore and though we talk daily it is only for five minutes and I haven't seen him for close to two months. He will be coming home soon and I know he wants to make things right with us and himself - he has been coming clean to alot of people and going out of his way to prove that my trust in him can be rebuilt. I want to steer him in the right direction but I am one not his doctor and two I don't want to push him too hard. Does anyone have any advice? I don't know what to do anymore.