I agree. You go get therapy alone and you two go together. You;ll have issues to work on together. YOu see at this place that there;s lots of guys who lose their wives or girlfriends and then want them back later (like me). You can work with your girlfriend and she can help you and you help her, there;s nothing wrong with leaning on someone. There;s no use for her to feel angry for you forever for what you did so go to couples therapy together and work it out together.