I was sexually abused as a child by my cousin, and kept it repressed for many years. (I am now 27) In my current relationship, I was abusive towards my girlfriend and not very considerate of her until i admitted to her my history of SA. Now we are still together but she says that she harbors some angry feelings towards me for abusing her. i know that it was wrong and have been doing tremendously better for some months now, but what can I do to help her feel secure in me getting healthier. We both want to spend our lives together, and this is the one hurdle that we have to get over. Please help us. Thanks so much.