my fiance was severally sexually abused as a young boy and has lived with the trauma.Last year a male his age befriended him and told him stories of how he was also abused.They had so much in common.Turns out this so called friend was not abused but an abuser.He betrayed my fiances trust and raped him.My fiance is suffering nightmares and is now questioning his own sexual identity.He wonders why males are attracted to him.It has come to the point now where he can look at himself naked.He is grossed out by the male sexual organ.I have tried to help him through his guilt and panic attacks but don't know what to do.My fiance has also been recently diagnosed with bi-polar disorder.Any hints or ideas would be greatly appreciated