I am in a relationship with a male survivor. We have been together for almost three years and i just recently(within the last 8 months) found out about the abuse he endured as a child. His father sexually abused him and his sister from the ages of five to about 10. His father still contacts him, which makes things even harder. I do not know where to turn or how to help him. If anyone is dealing with anything similar, please help me. I love him very much and want to help him begin recovering from this.