my boyfriend of two years just disclosed to me that he had been abused by a female babysitter and her grandmother. all these memories have just been flooding back in a torrent over the last few days and he is finding it overwhelming. he is on a constant roller coaster of feeling bad then good then bad again. he is lost in where to start to begin the healing process. he is confused about feelings he had while it happened. we dont know where to start. he is wanting to start counselling, but we don't know who to trust to goto. (too many horror stories, i guess, of not-so-good ones.) what should we look for in a therapist? where can we go on-line to get info? is there someone out there that can guide us? thank you and my prayers are with all of you brave men. i pray for your peace.