I am married to a survivor, he's 38 now, but the effects of the abuse live on. Not just the sexual, but the mental, emotional and physical. I love him and I know I promised to stay by him, even through his last bout of depression and suicide attempt. BUT>..I don't know if I can take it anymore. He seems to almost be fond of the pain and hurt that any other human being has caused him. The current is an X-girlfriend who stole some foreign coins from him....he's totally hung up on it, and this happened about 3+ years ago....he also has this anger that lies just under the surface...I don't know if I can live with him anymore.....
any suggestions?

David's wife