JZ.......what really infuriates me the most...is that governments award you a few dollars and that's it.....no offer of free therapy for you...instead the government is spending so much more money to pay for your father's prison stay and i'm sure his therapy....i really feel for you....it's so disrespectful.....and yet another example of the added abuse vicims like us must endure even when one like you with the bravery to come forward must go through....your friend.....steve