This is gonna be my theme. I keep reading postings by guys who got thrown out of the house, whose wife left them, whose fiancee left them, who are divorced, who broke up with their girlfriend. I wasn't going to post a new message, but this gets to me. I read that one of the steps to recovery is to make amends with the loved ones you hurt. don't keep hurting them. be a man and take responsibility for what you do. heal with someone and let her heal too. open up to her and tell her what your going through and don't keep hurting her. or someday you'll look at yourself and say what have I done? get your life back on track. you all don't have to do it alone. just remember that you can't hurt somone else.