and not being able to fight out petty conflicts without violence

http://news.sky.com/story/1302864/malaysian-plane-shot-down-with-295-on-board
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In the howling wind
Comes a stinging rain
See it driving nails
Into souls on the tree of pain
From the firefly a red orange glow
See the face of fear
Running scared in the valley below
~ Bullet The Blue Sky - U2