I totally agree that no organization should ever call pedophilia an "orientation" as that gets scary. Calling it a disorder or mental illness seems a better fit. Maybe just that and that alone. Don't tie it to any orientation, just let it stand alone as a sickness for which there is no cure.
“We can easily forgive a child who is afraid of the dark. The real tragedy of life is when men are afraid of the light.” - Plato