John,

This is something that in my opinion can't be over stressed. He ain't mine, never was. And for what ever it is worth, I'm not his victim! Was I a victim? Yes. But I am not and never was his! Him doing bad things to me did not make me his any more than me keying my neighbors car mekes it mine.

Love ya Bro

Darrel

PS, you can find the thread I started by clicking here.

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