eventually, if you are lucky, your spouse will not depend on you for things you cannot provide. it is too much pressure. i was finally able to do this for my wife. she cannot save me. it was a major breakthrough in our relationship. i can find comfort from other sources, and i don't mean adultery or abstinence.
it has nothing to do with sex and everything to do with soul and spirit.
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