Crux , you are right some people are just more introverted. But my husband is an extrovert but with very very surface relationships. Like you said it is all about what they do.

I guess I should just give up on this. It isn't my problem though it is a huge responsibility to be ssomeone's only friend and confidant.

And others, the 2 guys in his group therapy are also in the sex addict recovery meetings with him and they are encourage to socialize as a part of recovery.