My therapist stopped when he saw he was pushing me too far. Reliving the events in a safe place can take the deep threat of them away, because YOU choose let them out and view them more objectively. Imagine that a good friend is relating them to you.
Sounds like your T has issues, its not about women, or her, her priority is to validate you, not presume you don't empathise with raped women. Its also a distraction and off subject. Ask her to explain why she said it to you.
Whatever reservations you have about her... u are her client, you are the customer. Take control, ask her and let her reason with you so YOU understand. Then u can decide whether you choose to stay or find someone else.
To my brothers here, and to remind me:
I am NOT alone.
I was NOT responsible