I have to chime in here goldstone
My experience was about women and girls mostly from the beginning and I came to see just the opposite! I thought that ANY girl who sat by me on the bus or giggled at me wanted to get in my pants. no matter how I tried to find some assurance that wasn't true it happened enough early on to convince me otherwise girls seemed to be totally about sex always!. so to me aggressive women scare the hell out of me! even my wife can be too aggressive at times and it can freak me out which is a hard thing to deal with because I think I would like to have that at times, but when it happens sex becomes a dirty thing again and it messes up the whole business. I don't know if opposite sex distraction is the word but it is triggering and a pain in the neck
Edited by newground (08/09/13 08:22 AM)
Towards thee I roll, thou all-destroying but unconquering whale; to the last I grapple with thee; from hell's heart I stab at thee; for hate's sake I spit my last breath at thee. let me then tow to pieces, while still chasing thee, thou damned whale! Thus, I give up the spear!"