because the words are words they are pharyngeal vibrations in wind that is all and they ring with a sad truth. this man or that man or who the heck ever you are all responsible for your own feelings.
if you dont like what your therapist said. call em on it. see what they have to say.
i dont know any of you from adam. and i am sorry for your experiences and no one wants to be feminized but i dont think she meant it that way. i think she meant that you can better understand the ongoing life experiences that even more women than non incarcerated men face.
just take a deep breath and take it down a few notches. if you dont like what she said, call her on it and see what she has to say for herself.
Once you hear the details of victory, it is hard to distinguish it from a defeat.