The man I'm in a relationship with, was abused from the ages of 12-17 by a family member and he finally told me about it the other day. He is an amazing man, and I hate to see him depressed all the time, now I know why he's depressed, what are some things I can do to help him? I've tried to get him to go to a therapist, but he's not ready for that yet. He has nightmares sometimes. What's the best way for me to be there for him? And I don't want to be too pushy with him, how can I convince him to go see a therapist?