Sorry for posting again so soon but everything seems to be happening all at once. I love my husband so much but when he is in a state he attacks my love for him. I understand that it's normal for him to push me away, but how do I continue to handle the times he says our marriage is over or failing and that I am a joke etc. He gets very mean and then the next day he is back to normal and says he didnt mean any of it, but all the hurtful words are stuck in my head. He makes me feel so small. I am not leaving him and i just keep repeating calmly that I do love him and support him always. He just gets meaner. Any advice? Oh and i am in therapy. Thanks everyone.