You know I totally get that. I like the way youth looks on a male. I like to drive down the beach in the summer and see all the hotties without their shirts on...there are very few things as pretty as a twenty four year old man with washboard abs. If you compare him to me, I don't stand a chance.........OR DO I?
What is my value anyway? Why does my husband love me? Ask ten guys and get ten answers, but it has to do with me accepting that I am a catch even though I am middle aged, gray and fat.
There are a few things that set us apart from the A & F crowd, or the "grindrboyz"
We can carry on a conversation about politics or news and be informed and have opinions.
We can carry on a conversation for longer than ten minutes without getting undressed or using drugs.
We can get to know a guy without needing him to sleep with us so we know we are worth something. We can look beyond a fight to try to really understand why we are escalating.
All of these things make dating a middle aged guy a little tougher to do, but totally worth it. We are not sex symbols, but guess what....a lifetime of love makes up for fifteen minutes of sex.
I hope you aren't offended, I have re written it twice and I am just going to submit it this time. Geoff