Candu, thanks for your reply.
I also see what you are saying and appreciate your feedback. I guess for me for the majority of our year it has been good and it's only been recently that he has been withdrawn but he has spoken to me about it and is aware of it. This question was just more about me having a hard time dealing with it at the time. Thanks very much for your insight, it always helps to see things from the perspective of another!
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