George Bernard Shaw says, "The worst sin toward our fellow creatures is not to hate them, but to be indifferent to them; that's the essence of inhumanity."
i don't comment here often, but not because i am indifferent.
i just don't have any advice about ASA that i would consider worth posting.
i also don't spend very much time in this forum because it does not reflect my experience,
so i felt like i had no business participating.
i will try to visit more often, because it seems the emotional consequences of ASA are not much different than CSA.