Any suggestions of how to break the cycle of denial? I'm hoping for him to get to a place where he would be willing to get help on his own, but we've been together for 16 plus years and I'm at a point where I've matured and I'm ready to put an end to the blame/avoidance, etc.
The fact that he said this is something we can get over in his email makes me feel as though he's minimizing the situation and is only concerned with how it affects him. He probably feels this is just another obstacle in his day. He's so into his own self/world that he's unable to recognize that not everyone feels the same way he does about things, and his reply is, "No, I'm just able to see it from a more logical viewpoint, w/o getting emotional about it". As if emotions and feelings were a bad thing.....