jude is absolutey 100% correct.
please read his post many times.
let the truth of his statement sink in.

especially this part...
"Children do not "seduce" adults, nor do they have "love affairs" with adults. Even if the child initiates it and wants it, it is sexual abuse. It is always the adult's responsibility not to cross those boundries. Don't take on the pedophile's guilt."

don't worry if you don't get it right away.
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