....and he is now reprimanding us for talking about the case and breaking confidentiality! after he spread the announcement of unsubstantiated charges and the name of the suspect to a couple hundred people!!!! we don't KNOW enough yet to reveal anything that is confidential......this is so patently false and the accused's rights are being so blatantly violated that it is absurd....
So sorry this continues to drag you down. The way you describe how you're being dealt with makes me think that maybe its time to lawyer up. At least to find out what your legal rights are in that country, and if they are being violated. I'm sure you'll both be vindicated, but in the meantime you don't have to passively take this crap!
"When I was a child
I caught a fleeting glimpse
Out of the corner of my eye
I turned to look but it was gone
I cannot put my finger on it now
The child is grown, the dream is gone
And I have become comfortably numb."Pink Floyd