Hello Still Around,
I know exactly how you feel and have had that happen and is still happening to me this day. The only thing I can think of is that it scares them and it's such a taboo subject they do not know how to support or understand us. I say cherish the three true friends and grow and educate them. Remember that we had not shared either and these things take time. When I see the "ghost" friends I call them, they act like nothing happened and think I am the same old outgoing person and I accept that and continue on my way. This does not heal fast like surgery and they do not understand it.

I was an awesome friend and it's their loss.

This is not our problem, it is theirs.

Stay strong my friend and I hope this helps.
Randy
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My Story of CSA
http://youtu.be/EJIlKCRL_6M

My Story of CSA: The Day God Entered My Heart
http://youtu.be/vpCWEp6u9zM

My Story of CSA: "Flashbacks" (Trigger Caution)
http://youtu.be/xLd5Fe-MxVM