Maybe. But still offensive to hear. But Ive always been the type to cave in and agree. I see your point though. It doesn't frustrate you at all though? I've heard it so much.
Oh, it frustrates me to no end. I didn't mean to say it wasn't offensive, only that it sucks that it so widespread.
"As long as the child within is not allowed to become aware of what happened to him or her, a part of his or her emotional life will remain frozen . . . all appeals to love, solidarity, and compassion will be useless."
-- Alice Miller