My wife I are also survivors also. It took me three years with the support of my wife and working with a T. Each guy progresses at a differant speed, because we are all so differant as a person and our abuse is differant. I wish you the bestmy wife and I are both in a better place.Thank God.
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it is and has been quite a trip thru life, as last I feel that I am in a better place, it takes work and in my case a wife the was and is forgiveing and helpful. At last a relationship has gone right, messed up three.