I think it should be good to raise that topic and at least get some kind of acknowledgment from your cousin. - that is actually very hard since we are talking about things that changed many things in your life...
Ivo, some acknowledgment I believe would definitely be helpful and yes those actions had detrimental effects
Be careful and make it known to Mark that your care about him but what he did wasn't acceptable - Talk to your T and get some recommendations for other Ts that you can give to Mark so he can think about starting his own therapy.
Thanks, cuda.. never really thought of that. That's a good point you brought up there. I'm sure he needs a T also, but whether or not he accepts the fact that he needs it, is another story.
..you should discuss with your therapist. Your T can tell you what to expect and how to respond.
Gonna have to do this before anything. Really not looking forward to walking into anything blindly.
I appreciate all your help guys, I will for sure bring this up at my next session. What to expect and how to respond is paramount.