Thank you all for your responses and your advise, this whole situation is just so frustrating! I am trying to give him his space right now but I think the hardest part for me is that he use to be so open with me regarding his CSA and how he was feeling. It has only been in the last year that he shut down on me, I keep thinking if he really did love me why would he shut down? I am so angry at his family for not listening and supporting him when he told them, to this day they will not talk about it and his mother denies that it even happened...I think their support would help him in this struggle... I am happy to report that he has started seeing a new T and he seems to like her, I just hope he sticks with it...