thanks guys...this makes me SO sad..now I know why he has problems thanking me....when I've giving him something.

Guess what I have problems understanding..is...I ADORE him..he trusts me...knows I care deeply for him and am never out to hurt or harm him in any way...and my gifts are given with love to show I care about him and think of him and want him to know he is special to me....NEVER a tool..NEVER strings attached ...never to beg him to or be something or someone......wow...this is sadly enlightening frown

Breaks my heart into a million pieces the lifetime damage in SO MANY areas!!!!