Sounds like miscommunication that is all , you must understand the position dealing with the very thing we are all here for. No judging here brother sorry if it came off that way . I can not say I could identify on this one because i have never been placed in this spot before , there has to be someone here though who has been in a similar situation . I hope you find out some information that can help you here seriously there are a lot of great people here but just like anywhere else there are always going to be people you do not mix well with so find the ones you do and roll with them

peace and blessings your way
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