I agree Danny. I was attached to someone in very unhealthy ways. I idealized her, and because I allowed her to see some of the stuff I have kept inside I became very unstable. It was the worst feeling of clingy and obsessive.
In the way you described, I became attached. And it was ugly. I couldn't understand why I was feeling so insecure, so exposed and vulnerable. But in hindsight it was the first time I was that transparent with someone. And this someone supported me in ways that I had never known. She validated my feelings.
I am the warrior.