Pero -

sorry that a pleasant evening became a trigger for you. i can totally understand that. it is the sort of situation i try my best to avoid. locker rooms are totally out of the question for me. too much history there! but there are surprises out there just waiting to ambush you when you least expect it. it is not always something you can foresee. i am glad that you were able to talk with someone who understands it. and so good that you can refer another potential member here.

hope you are doing better now.
Lee


Edited by traveler (02/14/13 02:11 AM)
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We are often troubled, but not crushed;
sometimes in doubt, but never in despair;
there are many enemies, but we are never without a friend;
and though badly hurt at times, we are not destroyed.
- Paul, II Cor 4:8-9