Originally Posted By: Obi
if you're not over it then, in their minds, you're just playing the victim mentality card....

i got hit with that many times myself... had a person, who is ignorant to sexual abuse and what it can do, tell me to get over it because what happened to me was a long time ago and that since i haven't gotten over it that i'm nothing but a drama queen....

Dead-bang accurate!
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