I'm so damn awkward in social situations. I don't dance, sing, stand out, I'm not that funny, not outgoing, nothing... It's a wonder that I lucked out & found a great girl 18 years ago. She's been with me ever since. I only disclosed to her about 2 years ago & she's been a rock for me. We, the survivors of CSA have big issues... But I would completely date a girl with these issues if I were single for some reason. If I had kids I wouldn't stand in their way either. Everyone is beautiful & needs love.
If entering a new relationship I would wait until there is an established emotional bond before disclosing. No need for pity... Just love.
The Bluebird of Happiness long absent from his life, Ned is visited by the Chicken of Depression. - Gary Larson