You may need an MS holiday and some time away together sans kids to reconnect and talk about the news of the day...whatever you both want that to be.
At some point that might be the best thing. But you have to see where you are right now, where you need to go, and the steps you need to take to get there. While we would like to get this all over with as soon as possible that is rarely the case. And a holiday is often required be it work or other long term stresses.
I had to take a break from all this for a while. Before I came to MS.