If I can add one, "Come Here" by Richard Berendzen with Laura Palmer is one of the first books I read about CSA and was very helpful to me in understanding the power and control of an abusive mother. Here is an article that talks about the book and Berendzen's abuse in some detail.http://articles.latimes.com/1993-10-24/books/bk-49007_1_sexual-abuse
Like a spent gladiator
crawling in the colosseum dust
who can count on his remaining limbs
all the people he can trust.
Like the one who stands behind him
cheering him on
Estatic when he stands defiant,
wild with abandon when he's gone
just stay alive.
do whatever you need to.
you are worth it.