A - welcome - officially!
try not to take it too personally. sounds like someone jumped to conclusions without knowing the whole story.
but i'm sure you can also understand that if someone thought you were a pedophile, pervert, child abuser-type perpetrator - that would cause lots of triggers and likely lead to over-reactions.
glad you are able to put it in perspective and hang in there with us.
"That you are here - that life exists, and identity; that the powerful play goes on and you may contribute a verse. . . What will your verse be?" Robin Williams as John Keating in "Dead Poets Society"