hi jason,

I agree with exopm. **Trigger**

My older brother was 12, I was 10, my little brother was8. My experience was that the first time it was certainly abuse against my younger brother. however his masturbating on our bodies was clearly under his control. I probably would not count this if there were no other experience, but he manipulated me when he was 14 and I was 12. After he had me suck him, he berated me for being a homosexual.

While legally, this is probably not abuse, but it was.