Hello:

I am very confused, in pain and hopeless.
I am on this road on my own.
My husband does not know that I know that he was molested as a child.
I found out about it recently, while he was having a nightmare, and he spoke the words, out loud, that confirmed my suspicion.
I want to hug him, telling him that I love him and I don't think anything different about him. But I can't. I want to tell him that want to help him heal, but I am afraid that it will pull us further apart.
I don't know what to do. I am here to try to learn to deal with this situation and not go insane.
Please any advise would be greatly appreciated.
Thank you.