I just got back.
Hmmmm. Be careful what you ask for you may just get it!
So we talked for 3 1/2 hours. I was empathetic but firm about the severity of what he did. I got answers to my questions which gave me more questions which gave me more answers.
To be honest I want to vomit right now.
I think eventually it will be healing for us both - but for now we are both feeling numb. There was a lot of ground to cover.
He seemed to be a 'changed man' and I believe his remorse is sincere.
Thanks for ALL the support.
I will post more later after I have digested it all.
More than meets the eye!