hey Jacob
congratulations on finding a group of people who can totally relate to "stuff happening" sorry that it was part of your experience. I hope you will hang around here and observe maybe chat some I think you will find it to be a safe place full of guys who "get it" i can totally relate to the DR. thing too I go because I have little choice but I to hate it with a passion. hope you find nothing but good experiences.
Towards thee I roll, thou all-destroying but unconquering whale; to the last I grapple with thee; from hell's heart I stab at thee; for hate's sake I spit my last breath at thee. let me then tow to pieces, while still chasing thee, thou damned whale! Thus, I give up the spear!"
Herman Melville