I was assaulted at 13---raped if you will by a very sick and twisted person.
That is as much disclosure as need be made to most people. It sounds like you chose the right people to give full disclosure to. The work you are doing is what will move toward being that thriver you want to be. Good work.
"Suffering was the only thing that made me feel I was alive,
Thought thats just what it cost to survive in this world,
...now I haven't got time for the pain... " -Carly Simon now 67!