I was assaulted at 13---raped if you will by a very sick and twisted person.
That is as much disclosure as need be made to most people. It sounds like you chose the right people to give full disclosure to. The work you are doing is what will move toward being that thriver you want to be. Good work.
"But now old friends are acting strange,
they shake their heads, they say I've changed.
Something's lost but something's gained in living every day
....it's life's illusions I recall, I really don't know life at all. "Joni Mitchell