Very well said Eric.

SoccerStar, many of us have made peace with ourselves over this issue. Give yourself time. You will too.

And SmallTown80'sBoy, the rest of that Billy Joel song is "Go ahead with your own life...LEAVE ME ALONE! A very apt reply to those who insist we have to fit some catagory.

Gay, straight, and everything in between, we are all MEN. Why don't we just leave it at that?
Seems I've got to have a change of scene
Every night I have the strangest dreams
Imprisoned by the way it could have been
Left here on my own or so it seems
I've got to leave before I start to scream
Joe Cocker