Very well said Eric.

SoccerStar, many of us have made peace with ourselves over this issue. Give yourself time. You will too.

And SmallTown80'sBoy, the rest of that Billy Joel song is "Go ahead with your own life...LEAVE ME ALONE! A very apt reply to those who insist we have to fit some catagory.

Gay, straight, and everything in between, we are all MEN. Why don't we just leave it at that?
I went back to the doctor
To get another shrink.
I sit and tell him about my weekend,
But he never betrays what he thinks.
Can you see the real me, doctor?.
The Who